It took a lot for me to go to the dentist even though it was an emergency. I knew I had a cavity on one tooth, but had been putting off getting it dealt with because dentists terrify me. The pain became so great I had to do something. I was especially worried because the pain seemed to have migrated onto the next tooth as well and I was worried it was spreading. I told them this and said I wanted to get all of it dealt with at one appointment because I don’t think I’d have the courage to go back again. They agreed. The dentist banged at the tooth that was bothering me. He took x-rays. He said there was a cavity that need to be filled. I reminded him about the other tooth. He acted surprised and looked at it again. Then said, “Oh yeah, there’s a problem there too.” Then he told me to schedule an appointment for follow up treatment and walked out the door. I was stunned. They had agreed to help me that day. I told the receptionist that as I checked out, but she said it’s the end of the day and there’s nothing more they can do. I practically had a panic attack getting there and not I’m left with nothing accomplished except what I knew before I got there. I’m still in a tremendous amount of pain and now out several hundred dollars. Is there any way to safely deal with this myself? Please help me.
Natalie N. – Maryland
I’m am so sorry that this was your experience, especially after it took so much courage for you to go in. At the very least, the emergency dentist should have gotten you out of pain. I want you to understand that not all dentists are this callous. I suspect he was rushing. You mentioned it was the end of the day. I’m a little disconcerted that he missed the original cavity. That hints that he was rushing.
Unfortunately, there is no home remedy that we’re aware of for dealing with cavities. They still have to be dug out and filled.
I’d like you to see another dentist in your area. Before you panic, I want to suggest something else. I want you to go to a sedation dentist or a cater to cowards dentist. They’re used to working with patients that have dental anxiety. They’ll also give you a pain-free experience.
To make sure you don’t repeat the experience you had, it will be helpful to also check their reviews. That way you’re more likely to get a dentist with a positive chairside manner.
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